To my mother, grandmother, aunts, sisters in law, mommy friends and all the mothers out there, today we celebrate us! Let us not be too hard on ourselves! We all rock!
Just Like That, I Am No Longer Alone
I certainly did not think I would be lucky again to feel this way. It is early to tell how things will pan out, but I sure am putting myself out there again… scared out of my wits, but hopeful.
Love Is Not Being Alone
Update: this was definitely not the last post I wrote about him. But the good news is, I would like to believe that the have let him go now.
Love Is Like A Dream Come True
Update: I realized instead of staying up all night contemplating on what may or may not happen should I decide to get back in the game, I would be better off spending my time dreaming about the life I want for me and my daughter and making sure it comes true.
Love Keeps Me Up All Night
For now when I go to bed at night, I cannot help but wonder whether I am better off being alone, or put myself out there and risk it all again.
Love Requires Courage And Involves Risk
Update: I am now once again trying to muster up (lots of) courage and face my fears.
Love Makes Life Rich
Update: after almost 2 years, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. A lot of realizations during the pandemic (and lockdowns) made me see things differently. Including what really matters, the relationships we have with the people who matters to us. Spouse or partner may only be third on the list, but I am still on it.
Love Forgets?
Update: I still do not delete. It does not matter anyway, I have photos of men I have dated before my ex-fiance and I could not care less about them now, and do not recall much about their faces (unless I look at those snapshots). I reckon it depends on the person we are trying to forget, and not whether we have some things to remember them by or none.
Love Is Blind
Is monogamy too much to ask?
Love Is Addictive
“People in love also have high levels of PEA, a natural amphetamine found in chocolate. It may be what helps fuel the sudden ability to go without sleep as you stay up all night with your lover.” I am sorry guys, it is not because we are so damn hot. 😄
Love Is A Decision
Update: I am consciously making a decision to not live in the past and give love (and myself) another chance.
Love Is Finding Ways
In the end, I think my biggest takeaway from the movie is that no matter how difficult and impossible it may seem, two people who are determined will really find a way to be together.
Love Gives
While we give when we love, I will argue that we get so much more. What makes it more wonderful is how it is not our (main) intentions at all but the by-product of doing something that gives us so much joy.
Love Is Taxing For Women
It kind of makes me wonder if feminism is the way to go. If a woman is not planning to get married anyway, then good for her! It is just sad how the successful, intelligent and well educated ones who are have bleaker prospects than their less successful, less intelligent and less educated counterparts. Do women really have to choose? I sure hope I can have both someday.
Love Is A Two-Way Street
Update: I learned the hard way that unrequited love will never be.
Love Is Not Self-Sacrifice
When we do something for a person we feel and claim we love, may we do it willingly, not expect anything in return, and especially not make the other person feel like they owe us. Would it not be more wonderful if our actions are inspired by the glorious force of love instead of self sacrifice?
Love Is Spending Time With You
I do have a feeling that next year is gonna be so much better! Happy Valentine’s Day, Sophia! ❤
Love Is Faithful
Yes, I definitely could. You? ❤
Love Is Hard
I choose love, relationship and marriage.
Love Is Learning New Things
Update: pretty soon I will put this theory to the test. I really hope it works.
Love Is The Free Exercise Of Choice
Update: I still do not drive, and looking for a new lasik surgery sponsor.
Love Gives Joy
Most of my adult life, I have lived an aimless existence, not really knowing who I am and why I am. I have started looking for the answers, and pretty soon I will find them, if it’s the last thing I do. But I have no desire to live a depressing life, now where do I find joy?
Love Changes People
What are your life defining moments? What did you learn, and how did this shape the person you have become?
Love Does Not Always End Happily
What is your Option B that you unwillingly (and unwittingly) had to face?
Love Is Not An Exact Science
I suppose it’s just plain stupid to not think at all. But where does one draw the line?
Love Is Not Falling In Love
How do you define love?
Love Is Happiness
Is it?
Love Is The Death Of Duty
Can you come up with an analogy?
Love Is Difficult
Update: I have yet to meet someone who may not necessarily make love easy, but is definitely worth the problems and pain.
Love Is…
Know that I have not completely given up on you yet! I may not know when and where and how I will meet you, but we will! I may not believe in them entirely, but if you can just give me a sign… I would really appreciate it!
Sophia, My Early Valentine
We have come a long way since, and to be honest, I am both excited and apprehensive to set you free. Until then, please be Mummy’s Valentine.
Sophia’s Mother Is My Favorite Role
I love you, anak! Shout out to all the mothers out there! Fighting!
Sophia Is Embarrassed Of Her Mom
Please do not grow up too fast. Like I always tell you (like most parent), you will always be my baby. And I will always be your cool old woman.
Sophia Prefers Physical Books Than Kindle
Which is just as well. I have retired the kindle already.
Sophia Misses Traveling
The last time we have been out of the country was two years ago, when Sophia turned six. I hope I can show my daughter more of the world.
Sophia Hears About Choices And Consequences Again
How do you teach your eight year old to choose well and face the consequences of her actions responsibly?
Sophia Knows The Difference Between Wants And Needs
I hope she grows up not spending just for the sake of it. I hope she does not forget that there are things she do not need to live, that the best things in life are free and that less is better.
Sophia’s Mother’s Wish For Her
Yes, you will make your own way and make mistakes and get hurt in the process, I cannot shield you from any of those, nor do I desire to (I say this now, but the challenges will make you stronger and the pain will make you appreciate the good times more). My fervent wish for you (and myself) is that throughout your journey (and the rest of mine), you have someone (aside from your mother) who has always got your back (I do, but I am afraid I will not be around forever, at least 50 more years, eh?).
Sophia Turns Eight
I love you, Sophia. Happy Birthday! ❤🥳
Sophia Knows Delayed Gratification
Every time my daughter wants something, she would ask if she could have it for her birthday, or for Christmas. I suppose I should be thankful there are only 2 special days in a year for her (and the next one is 11 months away whew!) Lol. Kidding aside, I am so glad I have not spoiled my daughter.
Sophia’s Eight Presents
I already have four, any suggestions?
Sophia Accepts
How do you teach a child acceptance?
Sophia’s Advanced Birthday Party
I am glad you had so much fun today and that you have friends I hope you get to keep for life.
Sophia Learns Fairy Tales Are Just That, Tales
Where do I draw the line?
Sophia See Sophia Do 5 (Cling)
How did this happen? Did she pick up a vibe from me? Is it on our genes? Or are all kids like this?
Sophia And I Hangs Out
With my personality, I sure will try to be my daughter’s best friend. After all, I am a cool mom! But where do I draw the line between the two roles?
Sophia Appreciates
Having a grateful heart and being vocal about it also makes the other person wants to give you more. It sure does make it a lot easier for me when you ask for a bit more expensive stuff, for I know you appreciate a candy that costs ten cents the same way as a 300 dollars Switch.
Sophia Is Resilient
How do you teach kids resilience?
Sophia See Sophia Do 4 (Crybaby)
How do you explain to a 7 year old that it is not always sunshine and rainbows and butterflies?
Sophia See Sophia Do 3 (Gratitude)
Note to self: Sarah, whenever you have doubts, feel and acknowledge them. Somehow your daughter feels them, too. And it is ok. What is important is you try to find answers. And do not forget to have a grateful heart!
Sophia Learns Math
How do you make Math fun?
Sophia Understands
To my ex-boyfriend, whom I am forever indebted for the best gift I have ever been fortunate to receive, I wish you a happy birthday, health and peace. Please do not wait until it is too late to develop a relationship with your wonderful soon eight year old daughter.
Sophia Gives
How would you handle this?
Sophia See Sophia Do 2 (Slide)
To my parent friends, how do you guys do this?
Sophia See Sophia Do
I was again reminded that I should be careful about what I say and do as my little one can see and feel everything. For those with kids, maybe try to ask your child this question.
Sophia’s Condo
How do I top last year’s birthday present?
Sophia Skips School
It’s funny how she got upset because she is not well enough to attend school. I hope this attitude continue until she’s done with university. I remember when I was in kindergarten, I spent an entire afternoon (the whole class) in the playground with a classmate.
Sophia Needs Rest Today
As I look at her chubby cheeks as she sleeps, I cannot help but be grateful for my sunshine.
Sophia Wears My Shirt
Seriously, who wore it better? 🤣
Sophia, Zaria, Victoria and Jose Go Out While They Still Can
Today was so much fun for these kids. #ToABetterSarah #RaisingSophia
Sophia, Zaria, Victoria and Jose Goes Out While They Still Can
Today was so much fun for these kids. #ToABetterSarah #RaisingSophia
Sophia Welcomes 2022 With A Grateful Heart
How did you start the new year?
The Gift Of Last Year’s Lessons
Cheers to better days, my love! ❤❤❤
The Gift Of International Friends
Ms. Philippines, Ms. United Kingdom and Ms. Venezuela! Sophia is grateful for her friends.
The Gift Of Cousins
Sophia is grateful for her cousins. We love you all.
The Gift Of A Childhood Friend
Thank you for the gift of friendship! I hope we remain friends for a long time! We love you and Tania!
The Gift Of A New Phone
What Christmas present do you cherish most?
The Gift Of Family
Merry Christmas everyone! ❤
The Gift Of A Supportive Aunt
If Sophia has someone like you in her life, she would be so lucky. I love and appreciate you, Anty Baby! ❤
The Gift Of A Busy Day
What keeps you busy these days?
The Gift Of A Sympathetic Daughter
Who do you miss?
The Gift Of A Good Eyesight
How do you care for your eyes?
The Gift Of A Good Problem
What is a good problem you had recently?
The Gift Of Being Fastidious
What is your biggest pet peeve when making a purchase?
The Gift Of Writing
Do you find time to write down your thoughts?
The Gift Of Arcade Games
Have you taken time lately to get to know your neighbors?
The Gift Of Giving Gifts
Are you done with your Christmas shopping yet?
The Gift Of A Complete Picture
Does it feel like nothing makes sense right now?
The Gift Of A Sweet Daughter
Have you tried asking someone how he or she feels before reacting?
The Gift Of A Sensitive Daughter
When was the last time you cried?
The Gift Of A Simple Daughter
Is your child easy to please?
The Gift Of Books
What’s the last book you’ve read?
The Gift Of A Happy Helper
Have you ever went to the groceries with a list, tell yourself you will buy only the least you can get away with and come home with even more?
The Gift Of Sleep
Do you get enough sleep lately?
The Gift Of Travel
Where would you like to go once the borders open?
The Gift Of Empathy, Knowing What You Desire And Family
I need to look in the mirror of erised, sometimes I get confused about what I truly desire. Are you clear on yours?
The Gift Of A Complete Team
Have you played anything lately?
The Gift Of High Technology
What is your latest technology device?
The Gift Of Gratitude
What is your little thing for today?
The Gift Of A New Beginning
What are you grateful for today?
How Do You Begin And End Your Day?
Lately, I fire up coingecko up and hope for the best.
How Do You Teach Your Kids Delayed Gratification?
Disappoint them sometimes and show them it is part of life but they can choose not to let it ruin their day. And if they are patient enough, they might get more than what they had hoped for.
How Do You Protect Your Eyes From Screens?
I have found this article very helpful and you might want to check it out, too. https://kraffeye.com/blog/how-to-protect-eyes-from-mobile-and-computer-screens
How Do You Buy An iPad?
If you will buy a new #iPad, bring a copy of your (or your friend’s) child’s school documents to get a discount, and they allow up to 12 months 0% installment.
How Do You Make Your Child Sleep Early?
I have no idea. Got any tips?
How Do You Start Counting Down Till Christmas?
Merry Christmas everyone!
How Do You Make Slime?
Please ask Sophia.
How Do You Plant A Seed?
Buy a DIY kit and follow the steps.
How Do You Teach Your Child To Spend Wisely?
First, I teach by example, then I explicitly give her real-life lessons.
How Do You Play The Squid Game?
I do not know! Why do they have to hop on one leg anyway?